If you come to my house and I didn’t clean up before you came, that means I feel comfortable with you and didn’t feel like I had to clean to impress you.
If I’m meeting up with you and didn’t shave my legs, that means I feel comfortable and not judged and didn’t feel the need to make myself presentable.
Why is it that we put on airs for strangers and bring our ugliest selves to those we love?